Dating with Intention

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Where are you on the Dating Path?

THE DATING WITH INTENTION PROGRAM

Designed for midlife women wanting to date with confidence, community, support & dare I say fun!

Dating Midlife

Many women in midlife find dating confusing, emotionally exhausting or anxiety provoking. It’s not because you’ve lost your edge but because the rules have changed, technology has evolved, think apps! and your heart has grown wiser and more discerning.

The Dating with Intention program meets you where you are and helps you move forward with clarity, compassion and confidence.

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Curious if this program feels like your next step? Let’s talk.

Dating From the Inside Out

Dating in midlife can feel disheartening not because you’ve done something wrong, but because the old rules no longer apply to your wiser heart. This program is for the woman who is ready to:

  • 🌿 Date with Self-Trust: Move from "Do they like me?" to "Are they right for me?"
  • 🌿 Create Clear Boundaries: Learn to protect your energy without losing your openness.
  • 🌿 Community Support: Walk the path with a small, private circle of like-hearted women.

The 4-Week Roadmap

  • Week 1: Your Values Compass – Uncover what truly matters in this chapter.
  • Week 2: The Art of the Profile – Authentic expression vs. "playing the game."
  • Week 3: Green Flags & Boundaries – Recognizing healthy connection early.
  • Week 4: Dating with Ease – Staying grounded while staying open.

"I'm dating with confidence, clarity, and a big smile. Joanna helped me find my voice again." — L, 50, Melbourne

Are You Ready to Date? Quiz

Dating in midlife comes with new questions and mixed feelings. This is more than a personality quiz—it is a reflective tool designed to help you explore the energy you bring to dating today.

What you will gain in just a few minutes:

  • 🌿 Mindset Clarity: Insight into your current emotional patterns.
  • 🌿 Intention Focus: Understanding the deeper desires guiding your search.
  • 🌿 A Personalised Path: Results that reflect where you are now, offered with compassion and without judgment.

Whether you are just beginning or ready for a fresh approach, this is a moment to reconnect with yourself.

“Dating felt exciting (& dare I say… fun?)”
J, 57, Melbourne
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Why I Created the Dating with Intention Program

"I changed the way I showed up... and yes, I found love along the way." Joanna

A Love Letter to the Midlife Woman

Dating in midlife can feel disheartening not because you’ve done something wrong, but because your heart is wiser now and the old rules no longer apply.

I created this program because I have walked this path myself. After 14 years of being single, I realised I wanted a partner, but I wasn't willing to lose myself, waste my time, or repeat the patterns of my younger self.

So, I started dating with intention. For me, that meant:

  • 🌿 Taking my own desires seriously first.
  • 🌿 Learning to ask the uncomfortable questions early.
  • 🌿 Shifting my focus from "Do they like me?" to "How do I feel when I am with them?"
  • 🌿 Aiming for self-trust rather than perfection.

This program is the roadmap I developed. It distills 30 years of personal growth and counselling expertise into a structure that helps you move forward with quiet confidence.

You don’t have to be perfect to find love. You just need clarity, a little bit of courage, and a steady approach that honours exactly who you are today.

Let's walk this path together.

Joanna x

"The quality of your relationships determines the quality of your life." — Esther Perel

How it works

A clear, supportive path to dating with clarity and care

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Join a Like-Minded Group

You’ll join a small online group of thoughtful, open-hearted women.

We meet weekly on Google Meet-up in a space that feels safe, kind and real.

Step 1

Start with a Call

Book your free 20 minute call with me.

This is a gentle space to ask questions, get a feel for the group, and see if the timing is right for you.

No pressure, just a conversation.

Step 2

Keep Growing with Support

You’ll leave with more clarity, stronger boundaries, deeper self-trust and a fresh approach to dating that feels aligned with who you are.

You’ll also have the option to continue in a follow-up group or individual sessions if that feels helpful.

Step 3

Move Through The Program Together

Across 4 guided sessions, we’ll explore the real-life experience of dating in midlife.

You’ll reflect on your values, learn practical tools, and explore what healthy dating looks like for you.

Step 4
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What clients say…

Happy Woman
❝Joanna is pure magic. I’d been slogging through online dating and honestly, I was over it. At 49, I felt like I was shouting into the void: zero spark, zero fun, and definitely zero results.

From our very first chat, Joanna put me completely at ease. With her mix of insight, humour, and a clear, proven framework, she helped me find my voice again and reminded me that dating should actually feel good. We rebuilt my profile to reflect me, not the version I thought I had to be.

The result? Over 50 matches in the first week. And not just any matches. People who actually got me. For the first time in forever, dating felt exciting (and dare I say... fun?).

Joanna didn’t just tweak my words. She transformed the whole experience. I’m dating with confidence, clarity, and a big smile on my face. She’s not just a coach. She’s a dating fairy godmother.❞

— Lilly (50), Melbourne, Australia

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Give Me the Program Details

  • Dating with Intention is for you if:

    • You’re a midlife woman who wants real connection, not casual scrolling

    • You’re tired of dating advice that treats you like you’re twenty

    • You want to approach dating from a place of clarity, self-respect and emotional maturity

    • You’re open to learning, reflecting and being supported in community

    • You’ve done some inner work and you’re ready for something different

    This is not for you if you want quick fixes, strategy games or someone to tell you what to text.

    It’s for women who are ready to date from the inside out. With wisdom, steadiness and intention.

  • Here’s how the program is structured:

    • 4 live, small-group sessions (75 minutes each, online)

    • Weekly reflection prompts to deepen your insight

    • A digital workbook with practical tools and journal space

    • A supportive space of like-minded women who are smart, thoughtful, and ready for real connection

    • Optional buddy check-ins between sessions

    You’ll leave with a clear framework, grounded confidence, and support that feels good.

  • Join a small group of like-minded women for four live online sessions where we explore values, boundaries, attraction, communication and what it really means to date well in midlife.

    This is not about finding the perfect person.
    It’s about showing up as the real you and making choices that honour who you are and what you truly want.

    Places are limited so each woman gets the support and space she needs.

Lets Do This Together

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • Absolutely not. I found love in my late 50s.
    Many women join Dating With Intention after long marriages, long breaks, or years of focusing on family or career.

    This program is designed specifically for women 50+ who want companionship, emotional connection, and healthy love on their own terms, at their own pace.
    You’re not starting over. You’re starting wiser.

  • You’re not alone — most women 50+ feel exactly the same when they begin again.

    This program gives you:

    • language for boundaries

    • clarity on red + green flags

    • support to navigate online dating

    • weekly encouragement to keep going

    • a circle of women who understand your life stage

    You don't have to learn all of this by yourself. You’ll be supported the whole way.

  • Each session offers a calm, supportive space to:

    • share wins and challenges

    • build clarity about what (and who) you want

    • stay encouraged when dating feels tiring

    • understand why certain patterns keep showing up

    • reconnect with what love means to you now

    No pressure, no performing just real conversations, clarity, and connection with women on the same journey.

  • This is one of the most common concerns for women in midlife.
    Inside the program, we explore:

    • how to trust your intuition again

    • how to recognise early warning signs

    • how to keep your heart open without abandoning yourself

    • what genuine compatibility looks like at 50+

    You’ll learn how to date with self-trust, steadiness, and emotional safety, so you can stay open without feeling vulnerable or exposed.

  • No.
    Some women are actively dating, some are thinking about it, and some simply want clarity before they begin.

    Wherever you are is the right place to start.

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